
How can a person become a Buddhist?
To become a real Buddhist is just to take The Triple Gem as one's guides, that is to say, if anyone puts his or her faith in the Buddha, Dhamma and Sangha, he or she is regarded as a Buddhist. A basic requirement for a person to become a Buddhist is to take refuge in the Triple Gem, namely the Buddha , the Dhamma , and the Sangha.
First, a person takes refuge in the Buddha. There are levels of taking refuge in the Buddha. At one level the Buddha simply means the Buddha image which may be taken as a reminder or indicator of the historical Buddha. The Buddha at a deeper level would mean Buddhahood, the highest spiritual quality which is available to all of us, if we follow the path the Buddha has shown.
Second, a person takes refuge in the Dhamma. Dhamma also may be understood in different levels. It is often understood to mean the canonical body of the teachings of the Buddha. However, more perfoundly, it means the highest truth realised by the Buddha.
Finally, a person takes refuge in the Sangha. The Sangha could again be understood in different levels, generally it means ordained Buddhists : monks and nuns. In a deeper sense, it means the enlightened persons, ordained or lay who are spiritual guides for human beings.
So, to take refuge in the Triple Gem is to accept the qualities embodied in the Buddha, Dhamma , and Sangha and to try to develop such qualiteis within one's life.
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Having crossed the river by a raft one need not carry it further. A man on his journey comes across a vast river. No boat goes to the other side, nor is there a bridge for crossing over. He then gathers grass, wood, branches and leaves to make a raft, and crosses the river with the help of the raft. After crossing safety, he leaves the raft at the shore and goes on his way. In just the same way, the Buddha has taught the Dhamma similar to a raft ; it is for crossing (Samsara : the Round of Rebirth) over, not for getting hold of. He who understands this should give up even good things(Dhamma); how much more should he give up evil things(Adhamma)
Loving - kindness leads to the extinction or Anger or Hatred. The truth of this is obvious. Whoever has loving-kindness cannot have Anger or Hatred. Thus a person prone to anger is advised to cultivate Loving-kindness as often as possible. Besides abolishing Anger, Loving-kindness generates calm and peace in the mind that give it birth. A mind blessed with calm and peace is capable of achieving other successes.





